Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Diagnosis

Ladybug met the new therapist last week. 

I am more impressed with her now.  She did research on her own to see if there is anybody in the area that is more qualified to help us.  I like that.  It makes me more confident that she is the right person.  I also like that again she validated what I was going through.  She was concerned about the school counselor workshop.  She was concerned that the school refused to entertain the idea of an IEP.  But most importantly, Ladybug liked her.  And she is excited about going back to see her.  She was comfortable talking to her alone.  I don't know how things went exactly.  We have another appointment scheduled for next week.  The counselor said we would talk after that.  And she also said, "I got some interesting things from her."  It still feels like we are on the right path.

And today I met with the psychiatrist.  I am considering the option of medication.  I am open to it if it is the right decision.  I am not interested in it if it is the easy decision.  One meeting.  She still needs to meet Ladybug.  She has talked to me.  She has talked to the therapist (same practice).  She has reviewed all the notes.  She is concerned that Ladybug may have an attachment issue.  Finally.  She is also concerned about possible ADHD and rage issues.  As she put it, "It really as if your daughter refuses to allow herself be parented."

Yep, that about sums it up.

Mean Mama

2 comments:

  1. Funny, we coincidentally started my daughter with a new therapist a few days ago too. She seems ok, but I did not leave feeling how you did. I was really hoping she would say something like "oh yeah, no problem I've worked with kids who don't want to be parented a hundred times- it's hard but we can work together".
    Nope, didn't happen that way. Just felt kind of, meh.

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  2. Oh Essie that sucks. I have to say things almost immediately started to change in my house once someone said that they believed me and there was hope. I know there is still a lot of work to be done but it really helped to hear those things. I hope you are able to hear those words soon.

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